TNY SEX EXPERT: RIC DENTON
I want to talk to you boys and girls about what I feel is a
lost art: Sensuality. It may seem
obvious that it’s not really lost, per se, but I do think that many, many
people don’t like putting the extra effort into exploring all the ways you can
make someone else’s body feel good before you get to the fucking and
(hopefully) make them feel fanfuckingtastic.
You can call this foreplay if you want, because it is, but it may not
necessarily fit the standard ideas of foreplay which I think most people envision
as a blowjob for guys, and some tongue-on-clit action for gals, or a finger
inserted here or there to warm up the hole for the grand act. You can (and
SHOULD!) include those in your love making, but before you even get there, here
are some of my favorite things to do to a body. I don’t consider these things
extra work or boring at all, cause when you’re hot for someone, you’re going
love giving your playmate pleasure with any of these. Some basic questions to consider are…
Do you like being slowly and methodically massaged all over?
Yes, you do. That means others do, too. And don’t feel bad about lingering on
super-hot spots. You’re making sexy time. Everything is fair game (unless someone is bruised
somewhere and it just plain hurts to touch).
Do you like to be kissed or even licked in random spots that
you never really think of as being kissable or lickable? I KNOW, right! Others
will, too. Now, I’m REALLY fucking
ticklish, and I know how awkward it can be when someone’s trying to be all sexy
and they touch the wrong spot and you knee their face in auto-protest. But it
CAN be overcome. Know how? You take their head in your hand and you guide it
like a big, seeing, smelling, tongue-wielding masturbation device. With your
hands connected to your partner, you’ll feel more in control and less apt to be
wigged out when those teeth brush your inner thigh or those whiskers graze over
your belly button.
Do you like sex with food? Like, with syrups and jellies and
fruits? ‘Cause if you do, then you’ve got get your fingers (clean, please)
sticky with the good stuff and put them in your partner’s mouth, and on their
body, on their naughty bits—or on yours—and have fun cleaning each other
up. I realize you might not be able to
get into this sort of thing with everyone, ‘cause some people may just not like
it, but just try it. If you enjoy the way your partner looks and feels already,
why not amp it up by making them the embodiment of some of your favorite
flavors? Talk about devouring someone…whoa baby.
Do you like to make out? Again, this may seem obvious, but
I’ve met men (yes, I’m gay) who just cannot get into kissing worth a goddamn. I
don’t understand it. The human mouth was designed for pleasure as well as a
vehicle for sustenance and, by god, it just needs to be crammed up against
another one for long, wet, sloppy sessions as often as possible. To be honest,
kissing is something that’ll make my dick hard faster than someone sucking on
it, but again, that’ll depend of if I’ve got a good kisser to work with. My
advice: KISS A LOT. If you don’t think you’re a good kisser, practice. A LOT.
‘Cause I mean, the things you can do with your fingers while your face is
smashed against someone else’s…do I really have to explain all that? No. I
know you get me there.
Do you know how to talk sexy to boot-kockin’ buddy? What I
mean is, while you’re making out, and you’ve got a finger or two massaging that
delicate flower, or you’re tugging on that growing tube-steak, work your way
around to your ear of choice and, in that purring voice unique to you, tell
them what you’re gonna do to them. Tell them how you’re gonna own it. Make them
tell you what they want, and then do it.
As I said, these are just a FEW of my favorite things. Also,
I realize that not every play session will require detailed sensuality. Sometimes, you just want to get right to the
fucking and sucking, or the jerking, or the fingering, or whatever works, and
get off because you’ve got things to do.
But, when you just really don’t have anything else to do, I think you
owe it to yourself to see just how skilled you are. You will get some amazing returns on your
investment. Trust me.
Ric
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You can also listen to Ric discuss Sex and all kinds of stuff on his internet talk show.
http://www.ricandbseriouslystraight.com/
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